Safe & Sound Protocol (SSP) in Calgary & Online

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What is the Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP)?

A nervous system reset for safety, calm, and connection

The Safe & Sound Protocol (SSP) is a five-hour, evidence-based listening program created by Dr. Stephen Porges (Polyvagal Theory). It uses specially filtered music tuned to human speech to send subtle safety cues to your nervous system.

Think of it as a nervous system workout: the music gently stimulates the vagus nerve and middle ear muscles, training your body to recognise safety, soften stress responses, and shift out of survival mode. Over time, many clients report fewer “false alarms,” clearer focus, and easier connection.

SSP helps shift you from constant fight-or-flight into a calmer, more connected state. That means less reactivity, steadier focus, and relationships that feel easier.

๐Ÿ‘‰ At Mindful Mage Counselling, we offer SSP as a standalone nervous system intervention — or as a buff spell to boost the impact of other therapies like CBT, DBT, EMDR, or mindfulness.

Who Can Benefit?

SSP may help children, teens, and adults who experience:
- Anxiety, chronic stress, or burnout
- Trauma or PTSD
- Autism spectrum differences and masking fatigue
- ADHD and focus difficulties
- Sensory processing challenges
- Misophonia and auditory sensitivities
- Shutdowns, meltdowns, or mood swings
- Ongoing issues with sleep, digestion, or immune regulation

๐Ÿ‘‰ Because SSP works directly with the autonomic nervous system, it can help you move out of fight–flight into calm, or out of freeze–shutdown into safe engagement.

How SSP Works

SSP is designed to “retune” survival patterns that once kept you safe but now keep you stuck.

Here’s the science in simple terms:

  • The music exercises your middle ear muscles using filtered frequencies.
  • This updates your neuroception — your body’s unconscious way of scanning for safety or threat.
  • As your system recalibrates, it stops over-firing at every noise or stressor.
  • Your body naturally shifts toward calm and connection, without forcing yourself to “think positive.”

๐Ÿ’ป We like to say it’s like swapping your overclocked stress GPU for one that runs smooth and cool.

Why nervous system regulation works

Your nervous system constantly samples the world through eyes, breath, and ears. SSP uses that ear–vagus pathway to update the “operating system,” not just the apps. When the OS runs in a stable, safe state, your thoughts, behaviours, and relationships stop fighting uphill battles.

You find a lot more information on Unyte's What is the SPP site.

How We Become Dysregulated

Early experiences shape survival patterns: freeze, avoid, explode, overperform, mask. Those strategies probably kept you safe once. As an adult, they can pull you off your goals.

Signs of mismatch between intention and physiology:

  • Jittery when you want to sleep

  • Lethargic when you need to act

  • Overwhelmed in social settings

  • Afraid when you want deeper connection

  • Distracted when you’re trying to focus

That mismatch is dysregulation. SSP helps realign the signal with the task.

What to Expect in SSP Sessions

SSP Core is delivered over seven 50-minute sessions, totalling five hours of listening. Sessions are broken into 30–50 minute blocks to support your nervous system’s natural pacing.

You’ll use wired, over-ear headphones and the Unyte-iLs app, either in-person with Fox or virtually with remote guidance.

During listening sessions, you might choose gentle activities such as colouring, journaling, knitting, or simply resting. Avoid technology, strenuous exercise, or demanding cognitive tasks during listening.

You can watch this video by Unyte on what to expect from your SSP experience.

During listening, you can:

  • Do quiet activities (colouring, puzzles, knitting, journaling).

  • Use gentle rhythmic movement (rocking chair, hammock, swing).

  • Or simply sit comfortably and let the music do the work.

Things to avoid during sessions:

  • Use technology such as cellphones, tablets, video games, etc.

  • Do intense physical exercises.
  • Do highly demanding cognitive tasks.

โš ๏ธ Note: Noise-cancelling headphones are not compatible with SSP and reduce effectiveness. See our Approved Headphones Guide

Not too sure if you'll like the music? You can listen to some of the sample music in the SSP here!

Benefits = Balanced Energy = A Regulated Life

Imagine your system delivering the right energy at the right time:

  • Open, warm, and calm for connection

  • Alert and focused for work or workouts

  • Slow and sleepy for rest

  • Capacity to halt spirals and panic before they snowball

  • Choice in how you feel, rather than being dragged by habit

  • Flow at work with built-in breaks that protect your health

This is regulation. SSP trains your body toward that baseline so life feels playable again.

Special Pacing for Anxiety, Childhood Trauma, and CPTSD

Regulation can feel unfamiliar if trauma has been your baseline. We go slow, adjusting session length and frequency to support safety. Most clients complete SSP Core within the seven-session structure, with optional tune-ups later.

Fox’s clinical workflow:

  1. Begin with 30 seconds morning and night. Add 30 seconds every day or two until you find the sweet spot.

  2. Expect your system to test the new setting. That’s not failure—it’s old survival coding. Keep the pace gentle and steady.

SSP Package & Pricing

All SSP clients begin with an intake & orientation, then complete seven 50-minute sessions.

Component Time Description
Intake & Orientation 50 minutes We review your history, goals, and set up the Unyte app for listening.
SSP Sessions 30–50 minutes Minimum of 7 sessions, broken into 30–50 minute blocks to support nervous system regulation. This pacing allows time for breaks, in-session processing, and gradual rewiring—helping you stay comfortable and grounded throughout the experience.
SSP Core Listening 5 hours total Five hours of listening, completed across your sessions. The pace is fully adjustable—slower if you are more sensitive, faster if your system feels ready.
Integration & Debrief Included Short check-ins between sessions (5–15 minutes by phone, video, or email) to monitor progress and adjust pacing.
Total Package 7 × 50-minute sessions $950 + GST (additional sessions can be added at $135 + GST each if you need extra time to complete the protocol).

๐Ÿ“„ For more details, visit our Safe and Sound Protocol page or check our SSP Headphones Guide for approved listening equipment. Learn more about SSP at whatisthessp.com

Tune-Up Sessions

  • Optional monthly check-ins for independent clients

  • Your $50 monthly fee can be applied toward a session

Note: Subscription covers licensed access and monitoring. Sessions are separate.

Why Choose SSP at Mindful Mage Counselling?

  • Certified SSP provider (2025) with CBT, DBT, and trauma-informed training

  • Neurodivergence-affirming and LGBTQ+ inclusive

  • Flexible pacing matched to your nervous system

  • Playful but grounded style: metaphors, co-regulation, creativity

Think of SSP as a baseline buff for your whole system so the rest of your healing plays smoother.

 

โš ๏ธLimitations & Cautions

The Safe & Sound Protocol (SSP) is powerful work with the nervous system — which means it can feel different, and not always comfortable at first. For many people, this is a safe and gradual reset. For others, certain medical or mental health conditions mean you’ll want to go slower, or check in with your doctor first.

๐Ÿ‘‰ Important: Please review these cautions before starting SSP. In some cases, medical clearance is recommended. If you’re unsure, talk with your doctor, psychiatrist, or audiologist before beginning.

1. Children & Families
  • Parents/caregivers should begin SSP themselves first before introducing it to their child.
  • This allows you to co-regulate with your child’s nervous system.
  • Children may also benefit from support through their existing therapy or school team.
2. Misophonia & Hyperacusis
  • People with auditory sensitivity may need to listen through speakers instead of headphones and at the lowest comfortable volume.
  • From Unyte Health: decreasing hearing sensitivity was one of the earliest clinical uses for SSP. Many clients benefit, but it requires careful pacing.
3. Seizures
  • SSP is not recommended for individuals with uncontrolled seizures.
  • If you have a seizure history, you must receive medical clearance first.
  • Remote/at-home SSP delivery is not appropriate unless approved by your neurologist or physician.
4. Bipolar, Borderline, & Dissociative Disorders
  • These conditions can increase sensitivity to SSP.

  • Please consult with your doctor and ensure you have a support plan in place before starting.

5. Psychosis & Recent Hospitalisation

Clients with psychosis, recent psychiatric hospitalisations, or currently on antipsychotic medication should only complete SSP under the supervision of their psychiatrist or a closely involved provider.

6. Ear/Auditory Health

Conditions like perforated/ruptured eardrums, stapedectomy, or tympanostomy tubes require audiologist or medical clearance first.

7. Autoimmune, Neurological, & Chronic Conditions
  • SSP may create nervous system shifts that interact with ongoing health issues.

  • Please ensure you have access to a medical provider to monitor changes as needed.

8. Tinnitus
  • SSP can sometimes temporarily activate tinnitus symptoms.

  • If approved by your doctor, you may benefit from:

    • Listening at the lowest comfortable volume.

    • Taking frequent breaks.

    • Using speakers instead of headphones.

  • Some clients report SSP actually helps their tinnitus when delivered at a slower pace.

9. Self-Harm & Suicidal Thoughts
  • SSP can bring up strong emotions.

  • If you are currently struggling with self-harm or suicidal thoughts, please talk with your therapist or doctor first.

  • SSP may be possible with support, but should always be combined with regular therapy check-ins.

10. Following Instructions
  • SSP can be done in-person, virtually, or independently at home — but it requires following the plan.

  • If you prefer a self-guided approach, you’ll receive clear instructions plus email/text/phone/video call support.

  • If following instructions is difficult for you, SSP should only be done in live 1:1 sessions.

SSP Mini FAQ

Do I need special headphones?

Yes. SSP requires wired, over-ear headphones that meet specific technical standards so the filtered music is delivered accurately. Noise-cancelling headphones are not compatible and will reduce effectiveness. See our Approved Headphones Guide

Why seven sessions?

SSP Core is five hours of listening, intentionally divided across multiple shorter sessions to allow a listen–pause–process rhythm. This pacing supports your nervous system in integrating change safely and effectively.

What if I feel overwhelmed during listening?

That’s a normal sign your system is doing work. We pace carefully. We can slow down, pause, or spread sessions out to support regulation. Comfort and safety come first.

How long do effects last?

Some people notice shifts during listening; others notice change over 2–6 weeks after completing SSP Core. We layer in somatic practices (breathwork, mindfulness, brief meditations) to consolidate gains. Tune-ups can be scheduled later if helpful.

Can I repeat SSP?

Yes. Many clients repeat SSP in a new season of growth. We’ll decide timing with you based on goals and how your nervous system responded the first time.

Is SSP offered in-person or online?

Both. Sessions can be completed in-person in Calgary or virtually with guided support. You’ll use the Unyte-iLs app and approved headphones either way.

Where can I learn more about the science?

You can explore SSP’s background and research at whatisthessp.com

๐Ÿ›‘ TL:DR Bottom line

SSP is not a one-size-fits-all tool. For some, it’s life-changing. For others, it needs to be carefully adapted or paired with medical supervision. At Mindful Mage Counselling, we’ll always screen first and adjust the protocol to fit your nervous system safely. Your nervous system doesn’t need to stay stuck in fight, flight, or freeze. SSP offers a way to help your body feel safer, more regulated, and more open to connection.

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